Slave Survival Guide
I started my journey into the BDSM alternative lifestyle a several years ago. I decided to combine my kinky desires with my assertive personality and venture into the other side of the lifestyle, which was becoming a professional dominatrix. Through trial and error, I’ve been honing my craft, and now I have decided to put in perspective for YOU, the submissive-slave, male questions pertaining to the lifestyle, sessions, play time, fetish, fantasy and an array of other questions that have been posted by you… So kneel, praise me, and join. Just don’t be rude or else… you’ll get what’s coming to you.
The first question I want to answer is one that I get asked a lot;
What makes a good submissive-slave or is there such a thing?
Is there such a thing as a good sub or slave? Yes. A perfect one, no. People are riddled with flaws, baggage, limitations and quirks. My opinion of a good sub or slave (not in a session I might add ) is their willingness to surrender. It is not about begging to cum, or letting someone tie you up, or the many other yummy aspects of the lifestyle. It is when that sub-slave humbles themselves mentally and physically before another. The sheer joy of serving and pleasing is what excites them without any thought of their own comfort, because that is truly who they are. What’s most important is doing so without losing one’s identity as a person. Knowing when to speak and when to shut up, no matter how bad one may care to speak. I for one don’t care to deal with slaves or sub’s who have shit for brains and cannot think for themselves.
I don’t know of many Mistress that want an overly pliant sub-slave. One that is a “doormat” so to speak. A sub-slave needs to have brains and the ability to think. The Dom needs to know that she can trust him to take care of things without being constantly told what to do. A good slave or sub when trained will eventually learn to anticipate what his Mistress wants and needs. Last, but surely not least, depending on the relationship he has with his Mistress, a sub-slave can be many things such as a friend, lover, confidant, toy, slut, property, or whatever her heart desires. Just remember this helpful tip: that though the Mistress is not always right, she is your Mistress and boundaries should be addressed before hand in order to maintain a healthy relationship within the constraints of servitude.
